Can you all please help me? ?

Alright I know very little of this song...VERY little. But its sort of adult alternative. I can tell you very little but its a little soft spoken at first, and it sounds like a white girl singing it. But before the chorus is says something like "and finally, i catch myself". I'm sure that isn't it, but I just faintly remembering hearing it a couple times and I would like to hear it again. If you know or think you have a good idea, please help me out.